Life without
you is really cool. I mean it. I was tired of being available 24*7! Three years
of you and I badly needed a break. I know you are very important and pretty
famous too these days but bullshit! I am sorry but I really wanted some time
with myself; These are crucial years of my life and I wanted no one to pull me
back. Along with momentary fun you have also given me heart aches, you know,
but just to lessen the drama I never confessed it. Now I am. Of course I have had fun with you too, you were always
there no matter what, I met new interesting people through you but it's time we
depart, for a while may be but we must. I have changed, I feel more mature and
less jobless. I feel to spend time in more constructive things rather and with
people who give me happiness in true sense. No I am not upset neither is it any
of my mood swings like others are sensing; it's me in completely fine state
biding you farewell.
At Peace
Pakhi
I really
never had a chance to write a break up letter before so I thought why not! Haha!
Just to tell you guys, I was a sincere whatsapp user; indeed one of the
earliest birds who had a phone with this app. And so it was just a few WA
people in my list back then. But now being online for everyone every time, constant
messages, the groups vibrating all day long, also those insomniacs messing your
sleep; I started to hate this very app I teased the WA-less community earlier
for. I was cheesed off with my own habit
of checking the phone every now and then. Also it wasn't that every time your
phone was buzzing with messages; when it didn't I found myself completely clueless
about how to pass time; a perfect situation for all the negative thoughts to
dwell in my head. The most irritating part was when people, to save on their
balance, would WA you the smallest of details and would force you to do the
same. ME, I am not good with touch phones and whenever such situation occurred I
felt like throwing my brand new b'day gift. I was pulled back to old qwerty
keypad for the same reason. I really miss those old phone call times. Three to
four phone friends, laughing and sharing life. Or even the SMS times were good
enough. At least you didn't appear online or your inbox wasn't filled with 'Why
you ignoring me' messages, from people who believe me won't care even if I
die.The funniest part of all was on deleting WA, hardly two to three people
called me to ask why, and all of them thought something miserable has happened.
NO NO NO! It's just I have been wanting to do it for long, but couldn't for
this and that reason; the easy access to assignments and practical files you
know; but easy access of ME was simply not my intention. Life is okay with few
people in it; but few real people.
Pakhi
I, too, have been feeling tied down by WhatsApp lately. Sometimes, when I just want to talk to that one friend, I don't want anybody else telling me "Dude! You're online still no reply?"
ReplyDeleteSometimes, I wanna be just exclusive.
But, now, since such a college and course, I can't help but be connected with it.
Felt good to know you could discard it totally. :)
Stumbled upon! Happy Blogging! :)
A tough choice Priyanka. But believe me its great. After the delete the there was an automatic filtering of friends, the day feels bigger and all in all it feels great :) I have no plans to install it back.. :)
DeleteVery relatable and good decision! :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Yuvika!
DeleteI am struggling for the same but to no use.... :(
ReplyDeleteTry it. Do it. It feels great! :)
Deletenice insight! Its tough to stay away from whatsapp! Kudos to you for doing it! Happy blogging! :) :)
ReplyDeleteThanks again Rohan!
DeleteA sincere Whatsapp Addict indeed, me 2 ! -.- you know what after operating this, kinda I have 2 surfaces.. One is Me - Genuine Me.. And one is me on WA ! Sounds weird, nhi ? But its actually happening.. :/ No matter what, it's irresistible too ! Me in a state of total co_Onfusion :p
ReplyDeleteThe two lifes. True! Happens! What we say while we type and what we say face to face; what we look like when we chat and what we act when in front; Wooopss!
DeleteAll I will suggest to you is Aashi, Don't let it eat you up. :) Don't let it waste all your time!
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